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Helping Children Cope With Death

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You do not have to be a psychologist or therapist to understand and use basic tools to address the needs of a grieving child. It does require recognition that “kids are people too,” and acceptance that moncler outlet sale their process of mending is no different than adults. Whether death or divorce, the stages of cheap moncler coats a child’s emotional recuperating are very similar to adults, and must be fully moncler outlet addressed by the parents in order to reap positive results.

Never assume you know what your child may be thinking or feeling. Even in the closest relationships, he or she will keep their most intimate feelings as they assess, for themselves, the impact of the emotional trauma and related environment issues that have been forced upon them.

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Be honest and direct and truthful in explaining what happened. Creating stories to “protect” feelings may make the grief process more difficult in the long run.

Allow and encourage children to express their feelings openly. Let them know that crying is normal, helpful and acceptable. Don’t put time limits on this process. Each child is unique and will move along at a pace most comfortable to him.

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Be a strong foundation, maintaining as much stability in the child’s life as you can.

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Grieving is an individual wilderness experience that is not exclusive to adults. Shock, anger, denial, guilt and behavior changes are human responses. Children need adults to help them connect to their resources, maintain a positive attitude, and walk in faith believing that they will heal and get through it. Knowing that someone cares cheap moncler sale will help make their “wilderness” journey easier to monclerdownjacket cheap moncler outlet bear. You will both be victorious if you take a step back from your own pain and remember that children grieve too. Minimal content editing is allowed; however, you may request changes to the content by e mailing requested changes. Off line printing is permitted. Please send a copy of the article on publication to: VMAssociates, Inc., PMB 47182, Windsor Mill, MD 21244.

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